Dear All
Chris shares his story with us from singing in the choir in Great Missenden to half-way around the world and back again. Chris encountered life as it is lived from one extreme to the other – a real glimpse of the life that many in this world see as 'normal'. My Mother taught me that though we may approach Him from many directions there is only One God and ultimately we worship Him. Please pray for our brothers and sisters across the world, across different faiths, across different cultures and enjoying or enduring widely differing standards of living, that all may find God and live a life to the full, blessed with His love.
Pete
Chris writes:
I spent my early childhood in Great Missenden. I was baptised into the Church of England and attended Sunday School and sang in the choir.
We moved to Aylesbury when I was 11 years old. We were not as integrated into the community there and my religious and spiritual life was with daily school assemblies and an R.E. teacher who was a member of the Christadelphian Church. He encouraged us to discuss our thoughts and beliefs and to think critically about these. He had a big influence on me, and as my family encouraged me to develop my political thinking, these things have become enmeshed in who I am.
My teens and twenties took me away from any religious influences in my life. In 1969, I spent some time in the Trucial States of South Arabia (now the United Arab Emirates) which was a British Protectorate at the time. Oil had just been discovered. I was astonished by the extreme poverty and squalor in which many people lived, and also astonished at the hospitality with which we were received.
In 1974, I went to live in Israel on a kibbutz for a while. I spent my Saturdays off exploring Jerusalem and at the end of my stay, I visited the North around the Sea of Galilee and Nazareth, the Negev Desert and Israeli Occupied Egypt along the Gulf of Aqaba coast.
Again, I was amazed at the persistence of poverty among the Palestinian populace, the low standard of living of the Israeli population and the higher standard of living on the kibbutz, albeit at the cost of some independence. The kibbutzim children were brought up in a children's home and the committee that ran the kibbutz had more input into their upbringing and beliefs than their parents did.
Over my life, I have attended all kinds of churches, Spiritualist to Quaker meetings but I have always been an outsider. In my late sixties, I was invited to attend Swanbourne Methodist Church and I found a congregation that positively welcomed me.
Chris
Dear All
Richard shares his story with us. Many of us will be able to relate to Richard's story as he gradually began to make sense of life and discovered the difference Jesus could make in his life.
Please pray for all who struggle to find sense and meaning in life, and pray that we may have the gifts to nudge them in the right direction, and show them the love that comes from Jesus.
Pete
Richard writes:
My first Bible
I was brought up with little contact with Christians or any church involvement. I was raised on a diet of secularism and evolution theory. Yet whenever Jesus was mentioned there was a stirring in my soul. I was moved, interested yet knew nothing nor how to find out more. I grew up in a fairly mechanical way going though school and finding a job with no real ideas who I am nor where I could go in life.
I remember the Gideons coming to school and taking an assembly in the late 70's. This was the first time I had been told about Jesus and the Bible. I was fascinated and wanted to know more. I analysed all this and could not find a downside. I am a critical thinker who will examine everything from first principles up to see if it is true and will work. They gave us a New Testament and Psalms, I knew I had something of value yet the text was small and it was the King James version, the old English was a struggle. I read things so different to what I was used to. I was intrigued yet could not deal well with the size and language.
The 70's turned into the 80's and my search for meaning beyond the physical carried on. In the mid 80's I heard of something called New Age, it offered easy access to the spiritual and people into this were keen to share it with me. I tried meditations, crystals, tree hugging, self help books, spiritualities and other things. Yet none of it satisfied, I likened New Age to meals of candy floss, attractive to look at and lacking in substance eventually getting nauseous and unsatisfied on consuming too much. I recalled the Gideon New Testament I was given and lost years ago, it was different and held the promise of something ultimately truthful and life giving within.
Skip forward to spring 1989, I wanted to know more and read a Bible properly, I had a hunger to learn. Nervously I walked into WH Smith in the High Street to look for a Bible. I was daunted, I did not know how to access the Bible, it contained writing so different to what I was used to which was mostly car magazines and technical manuals. I am a nerd and I love anything technical to do with cars, motorbikes, bicycles and photography.
On the shelf I saw a blue Bible and on the spine I read "with introductory helps". I bought that one. I took it home and began with the introductory helps and the introduction "About the Bible". Soon I had a framework to begin reading. I put down my manuals and magazines and got to work on the Bible. For the first time it was making sense, I perceived a narrative from beginning to end. I asked questions of the Bible, I tested what I read, as far as I could go I could not break the logic. I was used to New Age writing and found the inconsistencies quickly realising there was no truth there, the premises within could all be broken under examination. I went further into the Bible and nothing came apart. I learned of history, prophecy, prophecy fulfilment, people who are types and shadows of Jesus. I saw patterns, God is a God of order not of disorder, the Bible has a tight structure and doctrine only a supreme intelligence could put together over millennia. All human history is there predicted and fulfilled. Most importantly the advent and person of Jesus. I read Isaiah 53 and it describes Jesus, his suffering and victory on the cross hundreds of years before this all happened. I read the Gospels giving a rounded account of Jesus' ministry and victory over sin and death. For the first time in my life I knew who I was and where I am going in life in Jesus. I read I could be a new creation, my mind could be renewed and I could have eternal life in Jesus. Everything I was looking for was there in the Bible and most of all in Jesus.
I read that Bible lots, eventually the cover began breaking. I put it away and bought another Bible. I will not throw the Word of God away and put this Bible somewhere and left it. It is easy to read and handle, I did not forget it. About five years ago I bought some book covering film, remembering what I used to do at school with books. I did a fairly crinkly re-covering job and this Bible is back in use. I used it for services, it is easy to read and well handled so I can find texts by visual/tactile navigation. Today it is next to my desk and in regular use, the introductory helps and quick text look ups are as useful as ever.
Kind Regards
Richard Maguire
Dear All
Lynda reminds us of those within our midst who do not make a lot of noise, but are there, very present in the background, quietly working out their faith, unnoticed by many of those around them, but doing such important work. Every church and fellowship possesses people who fall into this category, and sadly, their work is often never fully appreciated until they stop. Please remember all those vital people in our churches who routinely carry out these tasks without the recognition they so richly deserve, give thanks for them in prayer, and take the opportunity to say thank you to them!
Pete
Lynda writes:
It is said that things go in threes and so it seemed a couple of weeks ago. I received a number of phone calls, three in fact to tell me of three of our members who were in hospital. We sent our prayers and love to them all. Chris and Paul have both made it home. However Peter was called to higher service.
So today we will be remembering Peter Roff and his faith. Stewkley has a number of farmers in our congregation, Peter being one of them. Peter was a long time member of Stewkley chapel.
His faith was strong and an example to us. He was not one who talked about this very much, but one who DID.
From the time he was in Sunday School, to sitting in the gallery at the evening services, to helping look after the chapel as a property steward and one of our faithful door stewards, his quiet faith shone through.
Life was hard on the dairy farm but milk was always provided for chapel teas, until rules and regulations changed things. Peter listened and encouraged us all in his quiet way. He smiled and welcomed you, showing God's love for you. It would not always have been easy to get to services with the pressures of farm life but it was rare that Peter was not there until recent months when his health stopped him.
He had been married to Audrey for 66 years and would drive her to visit many of our members when she was a chapel steward, especially if they were in hospital. He found time to help people where it was needed and supported his chapel and community where he could.
I am sure many of you do the same, but we sometimes forget how important this support is. Peter always thanked you for things that you did and you felt warmed by his care. Family were important to him, his own and those in the wider community. As a husband, a father, a Grandfather and a Great Grandfather, as a brother and uncle he looked after them all.
Finding God our Father and becoming a Christian can be a life time's search but I believe Peter knew God and followed his path. Thank you Peter for all your care and love to us. May we follow your example and share God's love with those we meet.
With love from us all
Lynda
Dear All
Neville shares his story with us from passive attendee through to fully engaged participant. Let us keep in mind all those whose journey echoes Neville's and pray that they may find the same support and guidance offered to them to enable them to mature in the faith and enjoy the wonders of the love of God.
Pete
Neville writes
We arrived in Princes Risborough in 2007 after 4 years in Brussels and the arrival of our children so we are relative newcomers compared to others that have previously contributed to this series. We were immediately welcomed into the fellowship, so when I was asked to write a short piece, the theme of participation rose to the top of my mind. As a family we have always subscribed to the idea that the more you put into an activity the more you get out. It can leave you dangerously over committed to clubs and societies, but how much more so does the maxim hold true in church life.
I think that I can chart the more buoyant parts of my journey of faith through the steps that I have taken to be more involved in the activities of a church and deeper engagement in the lives of those attending. Having passively attended Sunday School, it was only through involvement at the University Methodist and URC society that I moved towards an active faith, nurtured by interaction and discussion with those around me, including my first retreat. I even found myself involved in a minor way in the preaching team around some of the villages of the East Riding. Moving to Reading and membership of Park URC for some 12 years meant closer relationships with other Christians over a longer period, with weekly Bible explorations together and eventually serving as an Elder. This meant also taking up the challenge of a formal pastoral role for the first time with the associated ups and downs of the lives of those on my "list" who were often much older and more experienced than I.
Another century and another church, but only for 3 years at Rivercourt in Hammersmith, where the defining development was participation in the West London Homeless Mission during the winter months, where both Kathryn and I were well out of our comfort zones helping to host upwards of 30 people on a Sunday night. Our relationship with one guest in particular had much to teach me about generosity and humility, and forced me to consider more deeply the injustices of society and the assumptions that we all make. Finally St Andrew's Church of Scotland in Brussels saw experience of another way of church organisation and worship which could be familiar but also unsettling. The challenges and joys of a constantly shifting congregation from an extraordinarily diverse set of backgrounds, were intensified by the knowledge we only had four years there at most.
Reflecting on this "pilgrims progress", at each change and staging post it is clear that involvement and the active giving of time and emotional energy to individuals and to the wider church has been key. Key also, though, has been a willingness to make time, to push myself beyond the tried and tested and to attempt things that I felt ill equipped to take on – leading worship, Eldership, practical outreach, opening up and being vulnerable in Bible studies. Our preacher last Sunday urged us to operate on the edge of our competence and to experience for ourselves the way we would be supported, helped and equipped by God as a result. I can't pretend that I often do, but at times where I have gone further than is initially comfortable and become more deeply involved, the rewards have been commensurately greater and I feel that participating and taking the risk has enabled me to continue to make some progress in my faith journey.
Neville
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